When Your Life Is Unraveling

Do you feel like your life is unraveling?  You’ve done everything “right,” and yet, nothing is going right anymore?

This is not a random occurrence.  And you are not broken.  Read on for an explanation.

Let’s pretend for a minute that, deep inside your core, is a brilliant being of light.  Long ago, this being decided they wanted to be shoved into a human suit and take a journey to this place called Earth.

This being was shoved into a tiny body and brought into the world.  Although they couldn’t articulate it, they had a good sense for who they were and freely expressed themselves. 

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As they grew older, they started learning about the world from their role models.  They paid attention to what behaviors got them love and attention.  Perhaps what behaviors kept them safe. 

If they were lucky, the things they learned allowed their light to continue expressing, unencumbered. 

For most, though, the opposite happened. 

As they expressed, they were told their natural state was “too much.”  Or that they had to stay small and quiet to be “accepted.”  Or that their worth was tied to what they did.  These beliefs countered their natural state, but as kids, they didn’t know any better.  They took each belief as a truth about the world and piled it on top of their light, like layers of blankets.  As that happened, they forgot they were a being of light and started believing they were the blankets.

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If your life feels like it’s unraveling, it’s because it is.  And for good reason.  There is a power bigger than you activating that powerful, brilliant light being that’s been dormant for so long. 

That power is whispering: it’s time.  Stop living a life that’s not yours.  You deserve so much more than this.  Shake off these blankets and step out as the true, brilliant you that you are. 

But in order to do that, you need to release the beliefs and behaviors held within those blankets that don’t support your brilliance.  You can’t build a new house on top of an old farmhouse.  You first need to knock the farmhouse down to the foundation and start over.

If this is you – I know how you feel.  My crumbling started in phases, hitting a couple low points in 2017 and then 2019.  As a result, I tore myself down in order to create the space for my authentic, brilliant being of light to shine through.

I know how to identify the parts that are not you – that are a blanket, ready to release for good.  I gently guide you past those beliefs, and into alignment with your brilliance.  I am here to hold your hand through this stage, and lovingly help you deconstruct to reconstruct.

If you’re feeling activated right now, then this is your time.  Grab a coffee with me. I’d love to hear about your experiences, and share my process with you.

If you’re ready to take the first step in reconnecting to your brilliant light being, grab my FREE PDF guide, 3 Ways to Tap Into the Authentic You, here. I also share content via email that I don’t share here on the blog. If you are interested in what I am sharing, grab the guide so you don’t miss out!


I (Andrea) am a Transformational and Spiritual Coach. I am passionate about women unlock their potential and create a fabulous life!

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